You just had the kind of first date you see in movies, deep conversation late into the night, and a kiss that made the butterflies flap in your stomach.
Now it’s been a week and they haven’t texted.. You have this sinking feeling you won’t hear from them again.
You’re disappointed, but honestly not surprised. This is the same pattern that keeps repeating for you. Same song, different verse. You try to stay optimistic. Pick yourself up and get back on the apps. But part of you feels defeated.
Why is it so hard to find your person?
I get it. Dating in your 30s in today’s hookup culture can feel brutal. It can feel like you missed your shot. Like all the good ones are taken.
I promise you, there is someone out there for you.
The reason you can’t find any good ones is not because
- Hookup culture has ruined modern dating
- There’s something wrong with YOU
- There’s no one out there “at your level”
You’re struggling to find the good ones because you have been applying the wrong Filters.
You’ve been taught to filter for chemistry “vibes” or “on-paper” compatibility.
Do they have a good job?
What was their education level?
What are their hobbies?
But when you stop checking the boxes of what’s supposed to be a good partner, and instead implement your OWN filtering system based on somatic compatibility… your dating life gets WAY better.
Instead of feeling like a test you are failing, dating becomes a game you are always winning.
The reason you can’t find any good ones, is because you haven’t been taught how to filter out the distractions.
When you apply the Somatic Filtering system, you stop wasting energy on bad dates, and start going on fun, promising dates with good people.
Introducing….Mindful Dating
How it works:
The MD system teaches you how to build and implement filters based on your personalized somatic compatibility, using elements such as nervous system safety, life vision, and shared values.
It works because instead of being blindly positive, we create GENUINE positivity that is irresistibly magnetic (by shifting the way we view dating entirely, to include a personal evolution journey).
It works because instead of filtering for “on-paper compatibility” which leads you to getting overly attached, overlooking red flags, such as inconsistent integrity, surface level answers, accountability avoidance, and controlling remarks…
…or missing or giving inappropriate weight to green flags because they don’t meet this list you have in your head…
(You dismiss the stable, consistent date as “boring” or “no chemistry”; or think it’s lame when someone seems “too eager” and doesn’t play games)
…leading to wasting time on distractions and bad dates…
When you learn how to mindfully and holistically filter, you start attracting truly emotionally available & aligned people instead!
We create your MD filter in 5 simple steps:
- Pinpoint the EXACT patterns that makes you a magnet for unavailable dates, and break it at the root
- Develop a winning mindset around dating to become irresistibly attractive (to the RIGHT partners)
- Create your personalized filters to correctly spot & weigh red & green flags
- Position yourself as your authentic 10/10 so you are seen as the most desirable person in the room or on the app – for anyone who makes it through your filter
- Identify high leverage dating opportunities so you can enjoy your dating life, without being consumed by it
The program includes:
- 4x weekly group coaching calls – personalized support to keep you accountable & on track
- Unlimited messaging support 24/5 in Telegram or Whatsapp community
- Mindful Dating Workbook & weekly trainings to practice & reinforce your progress
- Meditations for subconscious rewiring that work even while you sleep!
- A bonus 1:1 coaching session to use anytime before, during or after the program
Program benefits:
- Start feeling hopeful about finding a partner again – see how many good ones are out there & how easy it is to connect
- Actually enjoy going on the apps instead of feeling like a chore – it feels neutral, playful, even fun, no wasting extra energy anymore on mind drama
- Start having more chance encounters and attracting opportunities in real life
By the end of the program, you’ll have:
- An effective, representative dating profile & a lifetime spot in my Global Conscious Matchmaking Directory if desired
- A high leverage dating plan to meet 10+ “good ones” organically in the next 3-6 months
- A personalized attraction ritual to become the version of you who effortlessly magnetizes your “good ones”
This is for you if you…
- Want to feel hopeful that your person really is out there
- Are ready to find that person to share your life with
- Want to have a fun, fulfilling, and drama-free dating life on the way to your person
- Want an amazing full life, where having a partner is the cherry on top
You can keep swiping or hunting for dates on your own with frustration & burnout, or you can start experiencing fun, promising dates with good people.
If you want an abundant, easeful dating life that leads to your person, this program is for you.
Investment:
Group (+bonus matchmaking ;)) $500
Private 1:1 $1000
Payment plans, scholarships, & any other questions can be discussed over a call. (Thank you soo much SWVL for your generous scholarship donation for this important mission to help people find their people and live their best lives ever!!!)
Book an enrollment call HERE at bit.ly/drtoonichat
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(And yes, this was the exact system that worked for me, after 4+ years intentionally single to heal & work on healing my patterns & filters, I’ve now landed in my healthiest relationship yet! who appreciates me for simply existing, not playing games, & wearing my heart on my sleeve!! They told me it was impossible to find a partner who wants to nomad, have kids, and an epic partnership of service…but I never gave up. And I know it is more than possible for you too!!)