Trigger warning: sexual assault topic and some statistics My two cents on the recent news on the Cornell 7 case… It is absolutely chilling how ‘normal’ the assaulters look, how innocent, scholarly, professional even. No wonder dating has become statistically the single most dangerous thing anyone can do. The stats […]
Summary: Meeting my soulmate & the lessons I learned from this journey after 4+ years single. I have met possibly the love of my life. One of the best people I know. And the healthiest relationship I have ever had. Now I know what the others have always talked about […]
Summary: A recent small miracle that almost passed me by… I’m processing a quiet moment a few months ago, when my mom and I were by my dying grandma’s hospital bedside. “We don’t know how long we’ll have… so you should spend more time with us.” I was touched by […]
Summary: Losing yourself in others or for the sake of family or loved ones… where is the line between not enough and too much? My grandma was hospitalized with a sudden heart attack for most of my visit to China (2 months). In hindsight, I got overly involved caring for […]
Summary: Thoughts about the meaning of family brought up by visiting my roots in China to help care for my acutely declining grandmother. I just arrived in China for 2 months to visit my grandma, the only remaining grandparent left. And my heart broke at how much she’s drastically declined […]
Summary: My Standup Comedy on Dating & Feminism as an Asian & Nomad I just did my 3rd time ever of standup comedy… unintentionally synced up with Women’s Day! This goes out to all the women out there who were told all they have to offer are their “Century Old Eggs”! […]
Summary: Lunar New Year reflections on shedding, and the surprising psychology of loss & gain Happy 2026! This is supposedly the ending of a 9-year cycle, with Year of the Snake shedding leading into the Fire Horse, energetically, and while I still hold a little skepticism about such things, I’ve […]
Summary: How “Instimacy” was birthed for helping nomads, frequent travelers, or simply people without a whole lot of time, connect! Happy Love Month of Feb! Phew it’s been a really busy Jan hosting a holistic empowerment bootcamp in-person right on the beach!! I’m hosting another speed dating & friending event […]
Happy Holidays! 2025 may have been the year of the most firsts for me… . First time standup comedy (which, as a shy, sometimes socially awkward introvert, I NEVER thought I would ever do and it actually went well!) . First time having a 9-day long first date between nomads […]
Summary: Someone brought to my attention recently that 96% of Asian students picked their major based on parental preferences rather than true interest and 42% of them wanted premed… of course😓)!! I never really knew how bad the Asian Pre-Med Pressure Pandemic is! This lit a fire under my butt […]
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Ep 45: Meeting My Soulmate!? - Accept THEN Achieve
I have met possibly the love of my life, after 4+ years single. One of the best people I know. And the healthiest relationship I have ever had. Now I know what the others have always talked about and I used to roll my eyes at. I never knew it could be so 'easy,' being in a relationship that is so aligned in values, vision, and even the little things...Read more at my latest blog post https://DrTooni.com/meeting-my-soulmate (Hope my lessons can help you too! Contact me for info on the free Relational Healing and Mindful Dating community in the comments or at DrTooni@Mail.com )
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