Summary: How to balance “Ambition” vs. “Laziness”? As 2021 comes to a close, I’ve reflected that this year has been way less “Doing” and more just “Being” as I’ve tried to purge old cultural conditionings of Achiever mindsets. Though I knew cognitively that our innate Worth isn’t tied to what […]
learn chinese with comics monkman
Learn Chinese with Comics, The Adventures of MonkMan! Summary/Review of Words ANNOUNCEMENT: ALL PREVIOUS CHAPTERS/LESSONS WERE CONSOLIDATED ONTO ONE PAGE HERE!! (new chapters past #40 will be announced in posts) Note: If there’s no PinYin (in red) above a Chinese character showing you how to pronounce it, it’s because it’s […]
Summary: The story behind my life’s calling to help women and my “Shame-Free Sex Ed” course…it all started in a shady college dorm room with a flashlight and a plastic speculum… (part of my college Brown University’s “FemSex” Female Sexuality Workshop, which CHANGED MY LIFE)!! I always view my life […]
learn chinese with comics monkman
Learn Chinese with Comics, The Adventures of MonkMan! Summary/Review of Words ANNOUNCEMENT: ALL PREVIOUS CHAPTERS/LESSONS WERE CONSOLIDATED ONTO ONE PAGE HERE!! (new chapters past #40 will be announced in posts) Note: If there’s no PinYin (in red) above a Chinese character showing you how to pronounce it, it’s because it’s […]
learn chinese with comics monkman
Learn Chinese with Comics, The Adventures of MonkMan! Summary/Review of Words ANNOUNCEMENT: ALL PREVIOUS CHAPTERS/LESSONS WERE CONSOLIDATED ONTO ONE PAGE HERE!! (new chapters past #40 will be announced in posts) Note: If there’s no PinYin (in red) above a Chinese character showing you how to pronounce it, it’s because it’s […]
name change multiple roads
Just a quick update that after several times of taking too long to explain my original website name (“LTNoM(a)D“), I decided to change the URL/domain to “Dr. Tooni.” It fits better anyway, and I feel more settled in this new identity. I had been torn about what to focus on […]
enough bryce
Summary: General life update after my month+ detox from screens and biz, on worthiness and being “enough.” I chose to detox from social media and online hustles for over a month, both to adjust to my new job in telemedicine and because I was feeling exhausted and even resentful of […]
internet scam phone
Summary: This month’s travel mishap – I fell prey to an internet scam by a “Paypal tech support.” Last month I finally mustered the courage to go back on the nomad road. I moved cross-country from NY to Las Vegas. It’s been a forever dream of mine to explore out […]
inner world
Summary: How our outer and inner worlds are connected, and how we can make lasting changes. I truly believe our outer world is a reflection of our inner worlds. Everything around us reflects back what we put out there. We can try to hide it and tell ourselves we are […]
set boundaries
Summary: 5 strategies on how to set boundaries with toxic people you can’t just avoid or cut out completely from your life. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to become more selective of whom I spend time with and reveal my inner world to. You may have heard we are […]
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Hi! I'm Dr. Toni, a carTOONIst. I empower, educate and advocate for women and minorities through my art and coaching, while traveling nomadically. I help others also follow our hearts and live true to themselves, no matter what others say!
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Ep 24: Guest Jen Randall MD on Quitting Medicine to Paint - Accept THEN Achieve

Guest Jen Randall MD shares her journey of leaving clinical medicine to paint and pass on the baton to med students.
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  3. Ep 22: Guest Sen Zhan on Finding Ourselves as a Third Culture Human
  4. Ep 21: Guest Chris Cheung on Mindfulness & Relationships
  5. Ep 20: What IS Success?! How to Detox from Achieveritis (i.e. After Tiger Parenting)
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