Trigger warning: sexual assault topic and some statistics My two cents on the recent news on the Cornell 7 case… It is absolutely chilling how ‘normal’ the assaulters look, how innocent, scholarly, professional even. No wonder dating has become statistically the single most dangerous thing anyone can do. The stats […]
Summary: Losing yourself in others or for the sake of family or loved ones… where is the line between not enough and too much? My grandma was hospitalized with a sudden heart attack for most of my visit to China (2 months). In hindsight, I got overly involved caring for […]
Summary: Thoughts about the meaning of family brought up by visiting my roots in China to help care for my acutely declining grandmother. I just arrived in China for 2 months to visit my grandma, the only remaining grandparent left. And my heart broke at how much she’s drastically declined […]
Summary: How “Instimacy” was birthed for helping nomads, frequent travelers, or simply people without a whole lot of time, connect! Happy Love Month of Feb! Phew it’s been a really busy Jan hosting a holistic empowerment bootcamp in-person right on the beach!! I’m hosting another speed dating & friending event […]
Meeting Our Mosaics by Dr. Tong (Toni) Liu MD (@DrTooni) (she/her) I learned I wasn’t enough from the moment I was born without my dad. And then, at 3 months old, when my mother left me to join him in America, leaving me with my grandparents. Who then left me […]
Summary: My Highlights and Lowlights of the year. It was a pivotal one. Highlights / What went well / What I accomplished:1) Published my Memoir on Amazon 5 years in the making of my journey thus far till age 35, from doctor to nomadic cartoonist! “WHY YOU NO DOCTOR ANYMORE?! […]
Happy New Year 2025! Every year I reflect on my biggest lessons: This year I noticed a distinct deepening of my sense of inherent worth, in a way that never really landed this hard before. It crept up on me so I couldn’t say when, but when it landed, I […]
I just came out from my second silent meditation retreat ever – also Vipassana but taught by a quite different style from my last retreat in Thailand in 2022. I didn’t learn as many lessons, but I deepened in my ones from last time. I also realized I overall feel […]
Summary: Reflections from my unexpected visit of my parents due to a new health scare). I’m writing this on the plane back to Thailand. I had made an unexpected trip back to the US to visit and help out my mom with her new unexpected health scare. (I had gone […]
Summary: Reflections on ways I’ve realized I’ve grown, and how 2022 was one of the biggest years yet. It’s been a loooong time since my last post. Thank you for still being here if you’re reading! I’d been sharing on social media and within my private Facebook community Acceptsians: Self-Acceptance […]
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Ep 45: Meeting My Soulmate!? - Accept THEN Achieve
I have met possibly the love of my life, after 4+ years single. One of the best people I know. And the healthiest relationship I have ever had. Now I know what the others have always talked about and I used to roll my eyes at. I never knew it could be so 'easy,' being in a relationship that is so aligned in values, vision, and even the little things...Read more at my latest blog post https://DrTooni.com/meeting-my-soulmate (Hope my lessons can help you too! Contact me for info on the free Relational Healing and Mindful Dating community in the comments or at DrTooni@Mail.com )
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