inner world
Summary: How our outer and inner worlds are connected, and how we can make lasting changes. I truly believe our outer world is a reflection of our inner worlds. Everything around us reflects back what we put out there. We can try to hide it and tell ourselves we are […]
set boundaries
Summary: 5 strategies on how to set boundaries with toxic people you can’t just avoid or cut out completely from your life. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to become more selective of whom I spend time with and reveal my inner world to. You may have heard we are […]
challenging beliefs
Summary: We matter, even if all we do is exist. All beliefs are worth challenging; there are very few absolute truths. I recently realized I’ve been so afraid of committing fully to my business or being an entrepreneur. I’m afraid of failure, but also afraid of success. It doesn’t make […]
support community
Summary: We as humans all need connection and support, especially if we are taking a road less traveled! In my journey to figure out how to live nomadically all over the world, and support myself outside of medicine, I realized it was essentially entrepreneurship I was tackling. I had never […]
body image ddr
Summary: How I went from couch potato to exercise addict and learned to love my body and the rest of myself in the process. No exaggeration, exercise truly saved my life. I was an overweight couch potato most of my life. I weighed 50 pounds at 3 years old. I […]
acceptsians public speaking
Summary: It’s so important to have a higher purpose, mission, and calling for whatever you want to do! I just wanted to make a quick post about the Acceptsians community I built. I didn’t know it at the time, but the community defined my “Why,” the why behind why I […]
public speaking anxiety
Summary: How I tackled and embraced my introversion and phobia of public speaking. I’ve always dreaded public speaking. I’d break into a cold sweat, stammer, or freeze up, mind blank. I’m an introvert who spent her childhood drawing in a corner by myself and hoping my work would speak for […]
Summary: How a random conversation with a stranger brought me to tears in realizing my patterns of perfectionism and FOMO. Since I just recently became a life coach, I was always excited to meet other coaches and learn from them. I was playing tennis with a neighbor’s son, an old […]
Part of the “Dr. Tooni” women’s health and empowerment project: “Self-Love Shoes: All About the Right Fit.” This random metaphor for romantic relationships just popped into my head one day. It started off as “how I convey that a partner who isn’t a good fit for you may feel good […]
settling down
Summary: My thoughts on romantic love and “settling down” as a woman is expected to by age 30, otherwise she is considered a “Leftover Woman” in some cultures. I’ve always placed a high emphasis on relationships, whether familial, platonic, or romantic. As a people-pleaser for most of my life, I […]
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Hi! I'm Dr. Toni, a carTOONIst. I empower, educate and advocate for women and minorities through my art and coaching, while traveling nomadically. I help others also follow our hearts and live true to themselves, no matter what others say!
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Ep 29: BIRTHDAY DREAMS COME TRUE!! - Accept THEN Achieve

Arguably the best birthday ever!! My "Tame The Tiger" group program clients all conspired to fly me out across the country to meet everybody in person!! From dream to reality... this mental health support & empowerment group went above & beyond what I could have ever imagined. Full story & videos at my blog post: https://DrTooni.com/birthday If you're curious about joining our "Tame The Tiger" community if you also want to heal from perfectionism, people-pleasing & other aftermath of harsh Tiger Parenting, narcissistic abuse, or other upbringings: https://DrTooni.com/Tiger (or memberships at https://Ko-Fi.com/DrTooni/tiers )
  1. Ep 29: BIRTHDAY DREAMS COME TRUE!!
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  3. Ep 27: Guest Dr. Rhodes: From High Achievers to Mindful Medics
  4. Ep 26: Sacred Singlehood: How to Enjoy & Embrace it
  5. Ep 25: Honoring Your Social Battery As An Introvert
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