settling down
Summary: My thoughts on romantic love and “settling down” as a woman is expected to by age 30, otherwise she is considered a “Leftover Woman” in some cultures. I’ve always placed a high emphasis on relationships, whether familial, platonic, or romantic. As a people-pleaser for most of my life, I […]
You have probably heard of Gary Chapman’s “The 5 Love Languages.” What about The 5 ASIAN Love Languages? Disclaimer: This by no means refers to all or even most Asian households. Stereotypes can be exaggerations, but they also often contain some truth. Words of Affirmation are typically lacking in Asian […]
body image beautiful bodies
This is a very vulnerable topic for me, one that I’ve been putting off writing for a while. I’ve struggled with my weight and body image ever since I can remember. I was born an average weight, but was always overweight from then on. I think people fall into only […]
learn chinese with comics monkman
There has always been something drawing me to languages. I find learning and practicing them to be so much fun!! I was fortunate enough to have spent my first 2.5 years in China; the exposure at such a young age made it possible to keep Chinese in a separate part […]
girl in a field losing face
There is an Asian concept of “losing face.” We are a culture of appearances, and it can be deeply embarrassing to have a crack or flaw in the mask we have striven so hard to maintain in society. I feel a bit like Mulan here, setting out to start over […]
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Hi! I'm Dr. Toni, a carTOONIst. I empower, educate and advocate for women and minorities through my art and coaching, while traveling nomadically. I help others also follow our hearts and live true to themselves, no matter what others say!
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Ep 26: Sacred Singlehood: How to Enjoy & Embrace it - Accept THEN Achieve

From my journey of desperately codependent to hyper-independent "don't need nobody" to Serenely Solo female nomad x 6 years and 2.5+ years single. I've learned how to enjoy my Sacred Singlehood & choose partners from a healthier, grounded, secure place. And share how you can too! The Self-Love shoes comic referenced: https://DrTooni.com/Self-Love Curious about joining our Nomads' Nest community? Email DrTooni@Mail.com or DrTooni.com/contact! If you ever want to chat 1:1, book a time with me at bit.ly/drtoonichat (I'm here to support you if you're unsure if your relationship is healthy, your picker is "broken," or any other concerns or confusion you may have about dating or relationships!)
  1. Ep 26: Sacred Singlehood: How to Enjoy & Embrace it
  2. Ep 25: Honoring Your Social Battery As An Introvert
  3. Ep 24: Guest Jen Randall MD on Quitting Medicine to Paint
  4. Ep 23: Using Community to Hack People-Pleasing
  5. Ep 22: Guest Sen Zhan on Finding Ourselves as a Third Culture Human
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